Can't get stock tune downloaded on laptop

[Devil_Z]

So i've tried a variety of ways. I've done it w/out pulling fuses w/ and w/out the keys button clicked and ive done it with every variation of pulling the radio and info fuse. If i pull the info fuse and leave the radio fuse in it will start the download and get stuck somewhere between 5k and 51k. At any time if the radio fuse is pulled the laptop wont even make it through the status check. I've also checked to make sure i didn't have any blown fuses so I not in a very pleasant mood right now because I can't get this damn thing to work. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

My truck is a late model '04 with an aftermarket stereo, but i have the wiring chime harness thing.

Thanks,
Brett