No worries at all, I know tempers can get the best of us at some times. Especially when frustrated as heck with a car, my dad and I just wrapped up our 4th day working on his 03 Audi A6. Replacing the cats on it, factory service manual entails dropping the entire engine/trans. We just got both sides out a bit ago just dropping the subframe, but we're probably 15-20hrs into it right now. The things coming out of my mouth weren't so nice...
I see from your other thread that you got it flashed, did V8 end up working for you?