I just forced it by continueing to be more persistant than the ECM! So far it works perfect and loads up any calibration I am thowing at it now!

I ended up loading the same tune that was in it from the beginning and then recalibrating it to the tune that I wanted in it. I was running a big tune in my truck, and wanted to drop about 50- 90HP. It just stopped in the middle and wouldnt reflash. Dont know what happened, but it is now good to go.

Tony